I had just moved to a new school in the middle of my 5th grade year. while in band practice there were two 6th graders that sat in the row behind me. They would always pull my hair or poke me with their Flutes. I was very dismayed that one of them was the daughter of one of my mothers best friends and the other was a member of my church. I still know the names of the two girls and every time I saw them in middle school and high school I tried to avoid them.